Author: Rachel
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Where I’ve landed: Thoughts on Unconditional Parenting
Alright. I’m finally ready to put my thoughts out there about the Unconditional Parenting book. I’ve written about what led me to read it and I’ve given a summary of the book too. It’s taken me a really long time to process my thoughts on this whole philosophy of parenting and I’ve wrestled with my…
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Unconditional Parenting: Moving from Rewards and Punishments to Love and Reason
Ok. So I thought I’d heard everything when it came to getting kids to listen and obey. I grew up volunteering in Sunday School, worked at a daycare, my mom’s been a preschool teacher and administrator for most of my life, I have a degree in Elementary Education and I took an entire class dedicated to…
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Where’s the Instruction Manual?
Parenting and discipline is not for the birds. It’s a never ending responsibility that requires unrelenting strength and patience. And for some reason I didn’t expect it to be this way. After all, I’d watched countless families before my girls were born and I knew exactly what NOT to do. If I just did the…
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Craigslist buyer beware
Dear potential Craigslist buyer, When I list my food processor or beloved camera equipment on Craigslist, I’m looking for more than just sending you home with a sweet deal. Deep down I’m hoping for more from you. Don’t worry, I’m not a rapist or a murderer…just a stay at home mom with very limited adult conversations in my…
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Living the dream
This winter was rough. REALLY rough. And not just here in Minnesota. It was cruel to the whole country. It took it’s toll on me mentally. In January I was starting to look for new states to live in. Where could we live without -45 degree weather? Where could we live without snow? My most…
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The story of a tattoo
Last month someone asked me about the meaning behind my tattoo. And when he asked, it threw me off. I realized the only other person who’s ever asked about the heart on my wrist was my mother. It’s funny because when I was choosing exactly what would be permanently inked into my skin, I had…